The Prodigal You
Posted on June 17, 2020
This is my daughter (picture removed). Our time together has been getting less and less over the last 2 years. We did get to spend a very good solid week together with my father and her best friend in July of 2019. Since then, I have been able to see her for 3 hours. I haven’t heard from her over 2 months and it is been 7 since I have seen her even though she only lives about an hour away. I have no knowledge of what she is doing or how she is getting along.
And it is tearing me up.
But this post isn’t about us. It is an example of another relationship. One that has deeper meaning, deeper love, even more one sided than my daughter and I’s. One that is much more tragic.
I look, against all hope, at my phone many times a day to see if I may have gotten a message from her. I sometimes look into her bedroom in our home, I guess triggering a memory, as if she may be laying her bed. I look at the drinks I have in the refrigerator and in the storage area, that area ready for her to drink.
But I am someone, though capable of love, cannot love to the extent that God can. As one of his attributes, he gave me a capacity to love. So I can, and do, desire to be with her and to get to know her better, but God created us and completely knows us and desires to be with us now and forever.
I can look to see if she may have pulled up into the drive to surprise me with a visit (which I would love) but God is constantly looking for us. In the story of the Prodigal Son, we are that Son (or daughter) See Luke 15:11-32.
When I give my daughter a gift, I give it because of what I know about her. I can give her a good one when I know what she likes, her personality, and size, etc. And again, I can give a gift because of another one of his characterizes or attributes. But every one of his perfect gifts is from above, coming down from the Father (James 1:17).
And as depressing it is to me to look upon my daughters pictures, not knowing when I can exchange the photo for the real thing, we are before him constantly and our images are engraved on his hands (Isaiah 49:16). And though I can sleep or do something to get my mind off of my daughter, God cannot. Besides being continually before Him, He doesn’t sleep, He knows everything, and He is everywhere. So each us is always ON HIS MIND.
These are truths not just for those that are saved or know him; these are truths about God about everybody.
How do I know this? Follow along.
God made the heaven and the earth, The Sea and all that is in them; (Psalm 146:6). God made it all (including us) and as such owns it and makes the rules.
He is before all things, and in Him all things hold together (Colossian 1:17). He sustains everything (and this is for our benefit),
The Lord does not change (Malachi 3:6). Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today and forever (Hebrews 13:8). God is consistent. This constancy isn’t only a trait of God’s but is also an example for us as we shouldn’t exasperate our children (Ephesians 6:4).
God created us in His own image (Genesis 1:27) and He gave us dominion (Genesis 1:26) over essentially everything on, in and over the earth. He also creates us very carefully and with much individual intention (Psalm 139:13). We are very much different than all the rest of creation. Very much different than all of the animals. Even different than the angels of heaven.
And for each and everyone one of us He knows the thoughts He thinks toward us, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give us a future and a hope (Jeremiah 29:11). I can have dreams for my daughter, but the Lord can provide her a future.
Even though I sired my daughter, and yes I do love her, look what God to get us. My daughter’s mother and I used a process God put in place to start the gestation (that term doesn’t sound so loving but it is accurate) but God, insured that the all the chemical processes operated as they should, he overlooked them on the way and then watched over her as she exited the womb. He truly did all the work (my daughter’s mother may say otherwise).
Image how He knows my daughter. Image how much He loves her. As much as I love her, it doesn’t hold a candle to how much, and how pure, His love is for her.
Out of love, I have done what I could to help prepare her for life in this world, and what I could to know the Lord. His love has plans for her that goes way beyond that. Read on.
Psalm 8:4 asks why God is even mindful us, knowing that we have all these flaws, but He chose to love us first. 1 John 4:19 says that “We love Him because He first loved us”. And we are reminded that we didn’t choose Him but He choose us (John 15:16).
God considers us the apple of His eye (Zechariah 2:8), we are precious in His eyes (Isaiah 43:4), and He knows all about us and of our ways (Psalm 139:3), and He considers us a fine pearl (Matthew 13:45-46). And many more examples can be found about how He sees us before we are even His.
Oh how He loves us. He compares His love as to betrothed couples or married couples. He speaks about how He allures us, speaks kindly to us, He looks forward to calling Him ‘my husband’ (Hosea 2:14, 16-20)(This is symbolic of God being the husband and each of us being the bride). And He says, “As a bridegroom rejoices over the bride, so your God will rejoice over you” (Isaiah 62:5). And finally He loves us with an everlasting love (Jeremiah 31:3).
Unfortunately, we go our own way many times. We don’t have time for Him or maybe flat out reject Him. John 1:11 says, “He came unto His own and His own didn’t receive home”. We rebel, or have rebelled against God. Against our maker. Against the person THAT LOVES US MOST.
But as the story of the Prodigal Son shows, God is watching and waiting for us to return. In fact, He’s actively looking for us (we’ll He knows where we are) and trying to coax us back to Him.
Though the story is told from the point of view that the father and son knew each other before the split, the story works similarly for anyone that has not known the Lord. If you have never known the Lord, or only thought you knew the Lord, He is waiting and watching for you.
He has the same love for those that know Him and those that do not. John 3:16 tells us that. And John 3:17 tells us that He wants to save to the world.
I know my daughter loves me. Of course, I am hurting because I think that she should find the time to be with me more than she does, or communicate with me more than she does, if she loved me.
Let’s for the purpose of this story we assumed that my daughter was the Prodigal Son and I was that father. If I was to use some kind of formula to use for the amount of time she has given me this year, to calculate how much she loves me, it would score low.
Of course I have to wonder how I would score to her. I know I would fall short compared to God.
Now put God in the father’s position in the story. How would He rate by the son? How would you rate Him after you read some of what I posted about how much He loves His son? How would you rate the sons love for the father? What if the son just did a token father/son relationship after being accepted back?
My love for my daughter, parents, my brothers, my friend, my next ???, can never compare to how much God loves my daughter, my parents, my brothers, my friends, my nexts… or me.
But I try to expand my love by learning about Him. Having a relationship with Him. Doing what it is that He wants. I don’t get it right always. Maybe never.
But just like I can’t have a good relationship with my daughter without being with her and communication with her, I can have a good relationship with God if I’m not with Him. And I would like to suggest to you that you can’t have a good relationship, or build it, or create it or repair it, if you are not with Him.
The Holiday season is coming around. For many, that means one of the 2 times a year that you go to church to show your love. I would like to ask what love your showing twice a year? What love can you show twice a year?
Don’t get me wrong, I doubt twice a year is going to do anything for you, and yes, I’ll likely lose my parking spot and my usual seat, but I want you there that twice year. Maybe this is the year that you’ll see how much God loves you, what a real love, an agape love, looks like and you’ll want to get that relationship going.
Don’t be the child that doesn’t recognize the pain that you are causing another. Don’t be the son or daughter of God that causes God so much pain by not being with him. Don’t be the child that neglects their Father.